We Got Married While Apart — Here's How It Worked

Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from separate countries.

When you’re in a relationship separated by distance, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a date can feel overwhelming.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just wasn’t an option.

Then we found out we could get married online.

At first, we thought it was too good to be true. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah offer fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re recognized across the U.S..

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

  • We submitted our documents and filled out a quick form.
  • We reserved our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
  • We invited our closest friends and family to join via Zoom.
  • And when the day came, we logged on, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my apartment. My spouse-to-be said it from their country overseas.

It was real. It was stress-free. And it was ours.

The officiant made it feel official. The ceremony was quick, but powerful. And we received our certified marriage certificate immediately — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle insurance updates, and every agency has accepted it — no issues at all.

If you’re dealing with distance, don’t wait. Online marriage is real, remote wedding and it’s a modern way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that marriage can happen anywhere — and that what matters most is the person on the other end of the call.

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